Bonding with Baby after giving birth (csection)I got an email a few days ago from a firsttime mom who ended up with a csection. It wasn'tthe birth she was planning on having but guess what, she was so excited because she had awonderful giving birth experience. If you'd like to find out how you can get awesome bondingwith baby after giving birth via csection, keep watching:BUMPER. Under certain circumstances, Cesarean Sectionscan be the safest option for baby mama. And boy are we glad we have them when needed.But one of the downsides of csections is less early contact with baby you're lesslikely to hold see baby after a csection
birth than if you give birth vaginally. Lesscontact with babythat first, crucial hour after birth can mean little to no bondingtime between mama baby. I'm going to illustrate this for you:Let's say I just gave birth I'm holding my new baby (this is Stella) and I'm lookingdown at her. My hormones are going nuts right now and so is baby's hormones. Our hormonesare doing a jig together kinda like that. This interplay between the hormones is whathelps bonding and attachment. And what helps breastfeeding cause these hormones get themilk factory going with gusto. How can you bond with baby after birthé1. Ask for your spouse AND doula (or other
support person) to bethe Operating Roomwith you. Birth support is crucial for you even when having a csection because theywill help you relax, your doula can also take photos of you, your spouse and your sweetbaby and provide that calming, soothing, supportive vibe that will make your baby's birth evenmore memorable and most importantly, they can help facilitate the bonding.2. Ask for the baby to be placed on your chest immediately after birth. This is called skinto skin. (if you're an email subscriber, we go into thisdetail next week, if you'rewatching this on , click on the link below to subscribe to our email list). Requestyour arms be untied so you can hold baby on
your chest or at least have your spouse nearbyto hold baby as close to you as possible (even if staff *must* attend to baby, you can havethem work with baby near you ask for it! As long as baby is fine, baby doesn't haveto be weighed all that jazz right away if you don't want them to be.3. Ask for baby to stay with you the entire time.4. Ask spouse to accompany baby wherever they go (if they insist on separating you).5. Ask to breastfeed ASAP your doula or spouse can help you if you feel shaky or tired. Thefirst hour of life for newbornmama bonding is super important breastfeeding is partof that. The 'bonding' isn't just a feel good
thing, there's a whole lot of science happening(hormones, etc.) that helps baby feel safe develop during their transitionto theirnew world. Remember that mama I got the email from whohad the really satisfying csection birthé She writes: quot;we kept insisting (politely!)for skintoskin contact as soon as and for as long as possible. We were happy they allowedthis for us, as it wasn't the quot;norm.quot; The takeaway from this tutorialé It doesn't hurtto ask! Your may say quot;that's not how we do thingsquot; or they may say quot;no onehas ever asked us to do that before, we can try it!quot; It's worth asking. The benefit isthat you will have awesome bonding time with
your baby which will help you and baby getto know each other, and will help breastfeeding. As I mentioned earlier, if you're an emailsubscriber, your next email will go into more detail about the science of skin to skin.If you're watching us on YouTube, click the website below to subscribe now!If this tutorial was helpful, give us a thumbs up!.
Why does my vagina smell
Oh sorry. What are you doingé Clone: I've been on a pineapple only diet all week and I still don't smell like a pineapple. What. Clone: I don't want my icky vagina to smell bad like they normally do. Clone: so I read online that I can make it smell like a pineapple! Oh my god I have to make a tutorial about this. It's time to talk about vaginas.
Your sausage wallet, punani, cookie, clam, toybox, cunt. Cunt is my favorite. Not just my favorite word for vaginas but like my favorite wordEnglish. It makes me really sad when I have casual vagina conversations with my friends and they don't know basic vagina owning 101. I wonder if theres a book called that. I'm going to look it up and if so its going to be on the screen right now. Just cause. I'm buying it. God I sound so pretentious. quot;I know more about vaginas then like, all of my friends.quot; Make a gif of that.
Alright, having a naturally bad smelling vagina isn't a thing. Vaginas are awesome. They smell awesome. And they taste awesome. Some people have faint scents, some people have strong scents. Do you want to bea tutorial about vaginasé When I tell people I don't wash my vagina they freak out. BUT HOW DO YOU KEEP IT CLEANé! Hey listen, vaginas clean themselves. They are a product of millions of years of evolution and all of that was before soap was invented.
There are actually lots and lots of little living things inside your vagina. Clone: AHHH! Don't freak out! There are tons of little living things all over and inside your body on the microbiological level and they're all working really hard to keep you healthy. So uh make their job a little easier and don't fuck it all up. Seriously if you're using soap or douchesyour vagina you are fucking up your natural cleaning process. Seriously though clean the dirty parts of your body. Your vagina isn't one of them. But having an unbalanced vagina is totally a thing. And if you use anything dirtyyour vagina like penises, toys, fingers you really gotta stay on top of it.
Now if your partners the one telling you to handle your shit downstairs tell them to go fuck a pineapple. But with that being said your vaginas a constant war between yeast and bacteria. If either of them wins, you're going to have a problem. That's not really how it works but I just love describing a vagina as that. IT'S A WAR ZONE. I don't know. Vaginas are badass y'all. Yeast infections and bacterial infections can both cause bad smells. BUUUUT, so called 'feminine freshness' products actually cause this.
They murder these tiny little organisms that keep you healthy and then make you smell bad. Let me say that again. DOUCHES AND SOAP MAKE YOU SMELL BAD. So you think you smell bad. You use a douche. You use a feminine soap. Then the smell goes away for a day and you're like, quot;Oh my god I smell like roses and mangoes!quot; Then the next day you smell bad again so you have to buy more of their products. It's a freakin vicious cycle. Chaching for them. Woof for you.